<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?>
<rss version="2.0"
	xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/"
	xmlns:wfw="http://wellformedweb.org/CommentAPI/"
	xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/"
	xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom"
	xmlns:sy="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/syndication/"
	xmlns:slash="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/slash/"
	>

<channel>
	<title>Internet Business Blueprint &#187; Personal Development</title>
	<atom:link href="http://askjamesholmes.com/category/personal-development/feed/" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml" />
	<link>http://askjamesholmes.com</link>
	<description>Internet Marketing, Viral List Building, Social Media Mastery</description>
	<lastBuildDate>Fri, 27 Jan 2012 21:24:29 +0000</lastBuildDate>
	<language>en</language>
	<sy:updatePeriod>hourly</sy:updatePeriod>
	<sy:updateFrequency>1</sy:updateFrequency>
	<image>
<link>http://askjamesholmes.com</link>
<url>http://askjamesholmes.com/wp-content/mbp-favicon/James Holmes with White Background.jpg</url>
<title>Internet Business Blueprint</title>
</image>
<xhtml:meta xmlns:xhtml="http://www.w3.org/1999/xhtml" name="robots" content="noindex" />
		<item>
		<title>Learn How to Hold Your Vision</title>
		<link>http://askjamesholmes.com/learn-how-to-hold-your-vision?utm_source=rss&#038;utm_medium=rss&#038;utm_campaign=learn-how-to-hold-your-vision</link>
		<comments>http://askjamesholmes.com/learn-how-to-hold-your-vision#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 12 Sep 2011 19:02:40 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>JamesHolmes</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Coaching]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Mindset]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Personal Development]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[holding onto your vision]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[home business training]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[how to manifest your dreams]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[how to succeed online]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[internet marketing help]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[james holmes]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://askjamesholmes.com/?p=2961</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Back in June I enjoyed a short working vacation in Vail, Colorado a place I have visited regularly since 1981. My trip resulted in an amazing period of reflection, personal growth and many lessons which I have shared here in two earlier post. The first  dealt with manifesting your perfect life and that was followed by thoughts on embracing your personal stories to break through events of the past that may have created self-limiting beliefs in your life.

Today, I want to share my understanding of another concept which may in fact be the key to obtaining the life of our dreams. The topic is holding onto the vision of what we really want in our lives. It is one thing to sit down with your journal and write out a set of goals or better yet a life plan, it is quite another matter to hold onto your vision against obstacles and setbacks.

I remember sitting next to the raging Gore Creek with it's banks overflowing from the Spring runoff as the water moved swiftly toward the Colorado River to fulfill it's purpose as a tributary to the great Colorado. When I looked downstream I could see many obstacles in the path of the flowing creek; boulders, fallen trees, foliage and I thought of these as an analogy of the obstacles we face in pursuit of our vision or purpose. I watched as the water found its way over, under and around every obstacle and challenge with a clear purpose to flow eventually into the Colorado River. We must maintain the same focus and determination to achieve our greater vision life vision and purpose.

Here are 10 actions you can take to achieve your vision and purpose in your business and life.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<iframe src="http://www.facebook.com/plugins/like.php?href=http%3A%2F%2Faskjamesholmes.com%2Flearn-how-to-hold-your-vision&amp;layout=standard&amp;show_faces=true&amp;width=250&amp;action=like&amp;colorscheme=light" scrolling="no" frameborder="0" allowTransparency="true" style="border:none; overflow:hidden; width:250px;height:30px;margin-top:5px;"></iframe><!-- Start Shareaholic LikeButtonSetTop Automatic --><!-- End Shareaholic LikeButtonSetTop Automatic --><div class="tweetmeme_button" style="float: right; margin-right: 10px;">
			<a href="http://api.tweetmeme.com/share?url=http%3A%2F%2Faskjamesholmes.com%2Flearn-how-to-hold-your-vision"><br />
				<img src="http://api.tweetmeme.com/imagebutton.gif?url=http%3A%2F%2Faskjamesholmes.com%2Flearn-how-to-hold-your-vision&amp;source=AskJamesHolmes&amp;style=normal&amp;service=bit.ly&amp;b=2" height="61" width="50" title="Learn How to Hold Your Vision" alt=" Learn How to Hold Your Vision" /><br />
			</a>
		</div>
<p><strong>Hold Your Vision and Manifest Your Dreams<br />
</strong></p>
<div id="attachment_2962" class="wp-caption alignnone" style="width: 310px"><a href="http://askjamesholmes.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/09/Vail-Colorado.jpg"><img class="size-medium wp-image-2962 " title="Vail-Colorado" src="http://askjamesholmes.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/09/Vail-Colorado-300x225.jpg" alt="Vail Colorado 300x225 Learn How to Hold Your Vision" width="300" height="225" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">The Covered Bridge Across Gore Creek in Vail</p></div>
<p>Back in June I enjoyed a short working vacation in Vail, Colorado a place I have visited regularly since 1981. My trip resulted in an amazing period of reflection, personal growth and many lessons which I have shared here in two earlier post. The first  dealt with <a title="Four Steps to Manifesting Your Perfect Life " href="http://askjamesholmes.com/four-steps-to-manifesting-your-perfect-life" target="_blank">manifesting your perfect life</a> and that was followed by thoughts on <a title="Learn to Embrace and Bust Your Personal Stories" href="http://askjamesholmes.com/learn-to-embrace-and-bust-your-personal-stories" target="_blank">embracing your personal stories</a> to break through events of the past that may have created self-limiting beliefs in your life.</p>
<p>Today, I want to share my understanding of another concept which may in fact be the key to obtaining the life of our dreams. The topic is holding onto the vision of what we really want in our lives. It is one thing to sit down with your journal and write out a set of goals or better yet a life plan, it is quite another matter to hold onto your vision against obstacles and setbacks.</p>
<p>I remember sitting next to the raging Gore Creek with it&#8217;s banks overflowing from the Spring runoff as the water moved swiftly toward the Colorado River to fulfill it&#8217;s purpose as a tributary to the great Colorado. When I looked downstream I could see many obstacles in the path of the flowing creek; boulders, fallen trees, foliage and I thought of these as an analogy of the obstacles we face in pursuit of our vision or purpose. I watched as the water found its way over, under and around every obstacle and challenge with a clear purpose to flow eventually into the Colorado River. We must maintain the same focus and determination to achieve our greater vision life vision and purpose.</p>
<p><strong>10 actions you can take to achieve vision and purpose in your business and life.</strong></p>
<p>01. Set your vision based on &#8220;<strong>your why</strong>&#8220;  as your why will anchor you during choppy waters and give your vision real  purpose.</p>
<p>02. Allow yourself to <strong>DREAM BIG</strong> regardless of where you are today, build your vision based on where you want to be.</p>
<p>03. Believe in the <strong>power of attraction</strong> and draw unto yourself the people, opportunities, and resources needed to manifest your vision.</p>
<p>04. Adopt a mindset that by default says yes to the opportunities, possibilities, and people who can help you achieve your vision.</p>
<p>05. Adopt this success formula:<strong> Preparation + Opportunity = Success</strong></p>
<p>06. Don&#8217;t expect something for nothing&#8230; life rarely works that way.</p>
<p>07. Don&#8217;t sell yourself short&#8230; invest the time and money in the training and resources needed to achieve your goals.</p>
<p>08. Take massive action and as you develop action oriented habits they will become perpetual and second nature in your life.</p>
<p>09. Become comfortable when holding your vision&#8230; breakthrough all fears that arises along your journey toward achievement.</p>
<p>10. Recognize that you will be stepping outside of your comfort zone&#8230; you may be entering new territory, so maintain your focus.</p>
<p>Manifesting your vision is a process that requires a conscious effort on your part and an underlying belief in your ability make your dreams a reality. If you are inspired to share your thoughts on creating a vision feel free to scroll to the bottom of this article and post your comments below.</p>
<p>If my blog has provided value for you today, feel free to use the Facebook or Twitter buttons to share what you have discovered with your friends.</p>
<p>I have so much more to share and will do so in future post. I am here to help you succeed and create the businesses of your dreams. By being here you have placed action behind your intentions for which I am grateful.</p>
<p>Have a blessed day!</p>
<p><img title="James_Holmes_Internet_Marketer" src="../wp-content/uploads/2009/11/230f7838ce3cae0635c29260bef6affc1.png" alt="230f7838ce3cae0635c29260bef6affc1 Learn How to Hold Your Vision" width="150" height="24" /></p>
<p>P.S. If you want to learn more about the 11 Forgotten Laws including the law of attraction watch my videos at:</p>
<p><a title="James Holmes Video blog" href="http://www.jamesholmes.tv/">http://www.JamesHolmes.tv</a></p>
<p>(c) Copyright 2008-2011 James A. Holmes. All Rights Reserved.</p>
<p>*************************</p>
<p>James Holmes, Global Team Builder, Coach and Trainer, combining online and offline techniques to help you grow your business. To request a free 30 minute consultation contact James by phone at 303-523-9503 or email at james@AskJamesHolmes.com</p>
<p>*************************</p>
<p>Note: If you’d like to reprint this article on your blog or in your newsletter you have permission to do so as long as the copyright information and the resource box above remains with the article.</p>
<div class="shr-publisher-2961"></div><!-- Start Shareaholic LikeButtonSetBottom Automatic --><div style="clear: both; min-height: 1px; height: 3px; width: 100%;"></div><div class='shareaholic-like-buttonset' style='float:none;height:30px;'><a class='shareaholic-googleplusone' data-shr_size='medium' data-shr_count='false' data-shr_href='http%3A%2F%2Faskjamesholmes.com%2Flearn-how-to-hold-your-vision' data-shr_title='Learn+How+to+Hold+Your+Vision'></a></div><div style="clear: both; min-height: 1px; height: 3px; width: 100%;"></div><!-- End Shareaholic LikeButtonSetBottom Automatic -->]]></content:encoded>
			<wfw:commentRss>http://askjamesholmes.com/learn-how-to-hold-your-vision/feed/</wfw:commentRss>
		<slash:comments>2</slash:comments>
		</item>
		<item>
		<title>Cyber Bullying Exist in the Traffic Exchange World</title>
		<link>http://askjamesholmes.com/cyber-bullying-exist-in-the-traffic-exchange-world?utm_source=rss&#038;utm_medium=rss&#038;utm_campaign=cyber-bullying-exist-in-the-traffic-exchange-world</link>
		<comments>http://askjamesholmes.com/cyber-bullying-exist-in-the-traffic-exchange-world#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Fri, 02 Sep 2011 06:17:02 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>JamesHolmes</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Coaching]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Personal Development]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[traffic exchanges]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Cyber Bullying Exist in the Traffic Exchange World]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[traffic exchange community]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[traffic exchange owners]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://askjamesholmes.com/?p=2945</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[The pot had been boiling for months you know the story school yard bully throwing stones and tossing insults to other kids on the playground that is the web. Let me be clear, all of the players in this little dust-up are people I consider friends so with that said... what boiled to the surface  has been in the soup for a while and many in the room know it even if they would never say it.

If you run a little Google search of my comments posted to many traffic exchange related blogs you will discover that I am an advocate of letting people run their own businesses and furthermore recognizing that there are many ways to do so successfully. Social Surfing vs Old school surfing, social sites vs non-social sites, owner provided customer support vs Staff provided customer support, LFMTE vs Non-LFMTE... nanner, nanner, nanner... how about try to make a few pennies a day vs why not a few hundred, building a chat presence vs building a list, and it goes on and on and on and on!  The truth is that there are many examples of successful sites and online business owners representative of each of these models and many more.

The truth is there has been a fair amount of "bullying" going on in conference rooms and on blogs over the past few months and the people being kicked around have many successes to their credit, they are proven leaders have have thousands of customers and followers. This post is not written to plead their case, feel sorry for them, or start picking sides... it's not my style. I am merely an observer like most of you with an opinion that I am not afraid to express.

Sooner or later every bully get's exposed on the play ground it like an unwritten law of the universe. When it happens you recognize it immediately, like that famous scene from the movie "A Christmas Story" when Ralphie finally decides he has had enough. There is allot of sensitivity to school yard bullying these days so I hope you can appreciate my humor in sharing this video clip before I share my point.

Go ahead and press play... you know you can't resist (CLICK on the Title Link above to watch the video and read the entire post)]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<iframe src="http://www.facebook.com/plugins/like.php?href=http%3A%2F%2Faskjamesholmes.com%2Fcyber-bullying-exist-in-the-traffic-exchange-world&amp;layout=standard&amp;show_faces=true&amp;width=250&amp;action=like&amp;colorscheme=light" scrolling="no" frameborder="0" allowTransparency="true" style="border:none; overflow:hidden; width:250px;height:30px;margin-top:5px;"></iframe><!-- Start Shareaholic LikeButtonSetTop Automatic --><!-- End Shareaholic LikeButtonSetTop Automatic --><div class="tweetmeme_button" style="float: right; margin-right: 10px;">
			<a href="http://api.tweetmeme.com/share?url=http%3A%2F%2Faskjamesholmes.com%2Fcyber-bullying-exist-in-the-traffic-exchange-world"><br />
				<img src="http://api.tweetmeme.com/imagebutton.gif?url=http%3A%2F%2Faskjamesholmes.com%2Fcyber-bullying-exist-in-the-traffic-exchange-world&amp;source=AskJamesHolmes&amp;style=normal&amp;service=bit.ly&amp;b=2" height="61" width="50" title="Cyber Bullying Exist in the Traffic Exchange World" alt=" Cyber Bullying Exist in the Traffic Exchange World" /><br />
			</a>
		</div>
<p><strong>Things Get a Little Messy When the Stones Come Back at You<br />
</strong></p>
<p><a href="http://askjamesholmes.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/09/Glass+Houses1.jpg"><img class="size-full wp-image-2947 alignnone" title="Glass+Houses" src="http://askjamesholmes.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/09/Glass+Houses1.jpg" alt="Glass+Houses1 Cyber Bullying Exist in the Traffic Exchange World" width="200" height="197" /></a></p>
<p>The pot has been boiling for months, you know the story, school yard bully throwing stones and tossing insults to other kids on the playground that is the worldwide web. Let me be clear, all of the players in this little dust-up are people I consider friends so with that said&#8230; what boiled to the surface has been in the soup for a while and many on the sidelines know it even if they would never say it.</p>
<p>If you run a Google search of recent comments I&#8217;ve posted on many <strong>traffic exchange related blogs</strong> you will discover that I am an advocate of letting people run their own businesses and furthermore recognizing that there are many ways to do so successfully. Social surfing vs old school non-social surfing, social sites vs non-social sites, owner provided customer support vs staff provided customer support, script A vs script B&#8230; nanner, nanner, nanner&#8230; how about try to make a few pennies a day vs why not a few hundred, building a chat presence vs building a list, and it goes on and on and on and on!  The truth is that there are many examples of successful sites and online business owners representative of each of these models and many more.</p>
<p>The truth is there has been a fair amount of &#8220;<strong>bullying</strong>&#8221; going on in conference rooms and on blogs over the past few months and the people being kicked around have many successes to their credit, they are proven leaders have thousands of customers and loyal followers. This post is not written to plead their case, feel sorry for them, or start picking sides&#8230; it&#8217;s not my style. I am merely an observer like most of you with an opinion that I am not afraid to express.</p>
<p>Sooner or later every bully get&#8217;s exposed on the play ground it&#8217;s an unwritten law of the universe. When it happens you recognize it immediately, like that famous scene from the movie &#8220;<strong>A Christmas Story</strong>&#8221; when Ralphie finally decides he has had enough. There is allot of sensitivity to school yard bullying these days so I hope you can appreciate my humor in sharing this video clip before I share my points.</p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><strong>Go ahead and press play&#8230; you know you can&#8217;t resist</strong></p>
<p><a href="http://askjamesholmes.com/cyber-bullying-exist-in-the-traffic-exchange-world"><em>Click here to view the embedded video.</em></a></p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><span style="color: #ff0000;">Click through to YouTube to watch the video</span></p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><strong>I hope you are laughing or I will never again attempt humor!</strong></p>
<p>Now that you have had a little laugh you can appreciate what I have to say in all seriousness because it is a serious subject.</p>
<p>People who live in glass houses should never throw stones&#8230; that is not new and deep down inside we know this is great advice. The lesson becomes all too real and may even hurt when we realize that everyone of us lives in a glass house&#8230; yep all of us.</p>
<p>The next time you or I declare that we have the authority to decide what is <strong>the right way</strong> or <strong>the wrong way</strong> to run a business or assume the authority to elevate saints and cast out demons, we must recognize that we are serving no one and ultimately dis-serving ourselves. Remember the bully always get&#8217;s exposed in the end!</p>
<p>I recently spent a great evening at my high school reunion (never mind which year) and the bullies were no where to be found&#8230; seriously, they were no where! Bullies spend four years ruling their universe and making others lives miserable and then simply fade away. It is the nerds, the geeks, the respectful ones, the goody two shoes that grow up to be Bill Gates or Meg Whitman, Ghandi or Mother Teresa, the mentor or the teacher. <strong>They live rich lives</strong>&#8230; get all of the pretty girls and handsome guys&#8230; and rule their universe for a lifetime. Something to think about!</p>
<p>So I encourage you when given the choice to respect the freewill of others, to honor diversity that is the essence of community, to <strong>celebrate individuality</strong>, or to criticize others, make broad and damning statements, or cast other stones&#8230; chose the high road, the one that provides value for others and is grounded in truth.</p>
<p>Please share your thoughts by scrolling down to the bottom of this post and leaving your comments. I am here to help you succeed, to design that perfect vision of your Internet lifestyle and offer whatever assistance I can to make it your reality.</p>
<p>Have a blessed day!</p>
<p><img title="James_Holmes_Internet_Marketer" src="../wp-content/uploads/2009/11/230f7838ce3cae0635c29260bef6affc1.png" alt="230f7838ce3cae0635c29260bef6affc1 Cyber Bullying Exist in the Traffic Exchange World" width="150" height="24" /></p>
<p>(c) Copyright 2008-2011 James A. Holmes. All Rights Reserved.</p>
<p>*************************</p>
<p>James Holmes, Global Team Builder, Coach and Trainer, combining online and offline techniques to help you grow your business. To request a free 30 minute consultation contact James by phone at 303-523-9503 or email at james@AskJamesHolmes.com</p>
<p>*************************</p>
<p>Note: If you’d like to reprint this article on your blog or in your newsletter you have permission to do so as long as the copyright information and the resource box above remains with the article.</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<div class="shr-publisher-2945"></div><!-- Start Shareaholic LikeButtonSetBottom Automatic --><div style="clear: both; min-height: 1px; height: 3px; width: 100%;"></div><div class='shareaholic-like-buttonset' style='float:none;height:30px;'><a class='shareaholic-googleplusone' data-shr_size='medium' data-shr_count='false' data-shr_href='http%3A%2F%2Faskjamesholmes.com%2Fcyber-bullying-exist-in-the-traffic-exchange-world' data-shr_title='Cyber+Bullying+Exist+in+the+Traffic+Exchange+World'></a></div><div style="clear: both; min-height: 1px; height: 3px; width: 100%;"></div><!-- End Shareaholic LikeButtonSetBottom Automatic -->]]></content:encoded>
			<wfw:commentRss>http://askjamesholmes.com/cyber-bullying-exist-in-the-traffic-exchange-world/feed/</wfw:commentRss>
		<slash:comments>16</slash:comments>
		</item>
		<item>
		<title>Richard Branson&#8217;s Necker Island Home Burns</title>
		<link>http://askjamesholmes.com/richard-bransons-necker-island-home-burns?utm_source=rss&#038;utm_medium=rss&#038;utm_campaign=richard-bransons-necker-island-home-burns</link>
		<comments>http://askjamesholmes.com/richard-bransons-necker-island-home-burns#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 30 Aug 2011 06:43:25 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>JamesHolmes</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Coaching]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Personal Development]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[james holmes]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[maverick entrepreneur]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[necker island fire]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[richard branson]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[richard branson video interview]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[ted talk]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[think like an entrepreneur]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[who is richard branson]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://askjamesholmes.com/?p=2932</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[If you are a regular reader of my blog you may have seen prior post and videos I have shared featuring Sir Richard Branson. I am a great admirer of his entrepreneurial spirit and his accomplishments as the original Maverick Entrepreneur.

Richard Branson started from nothing and since his late teens has taken the risk and made necessary sacrifices to emerge as one of the most innovative and wealthy self starters of all time. He has become a billionaire as a result of hard work coupled with creativity and a flare that has made him very popular and love around the world. Along the way he has given away millions and helped thousands of people better their lives. Richard Branson's causes are as big as his vision and imagination including ending poverty, saving the environment, furthering space exploration, and much more.

His home will be rebuilt and according to Mr. Branson... even better than before. The true loss was the journals, photographs, and other irreplaceable documents which chronicled the career that has spanned many decades, cultures, and industries. By God's grace no one was injured and for that all of us as human beings can collectively extend our gratitude to everyone involved. I wanted to pause for a moment and share a few thoughts to consider.

If you are not familiar with Sir Richard, here is an insightful interview recorded March 2007 during a TED Conference and the interview holds several key business and life lessons. The interview is 29:55 in length and worth every minute. If you seek to learn how a billionaire thinks, how to extend a brand, and understand the rewards of taking risk - this interview is for you.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<iframe src="http://www.facebook.com/plugins/like.php?href=http%3A%2F%2Faskjamesholmes.com%2Frichard-bransons-necker-island-home-burns&amp;layout=standard&amp;show_faces=true&amp;width=250&amp;action=like&amp;colorscheme=light" scrolling="no" frameborder="0" allowTransparency="true" style="border:none; overflow:hidden; width:250px;height:30px;margin-top:5px;"></iframe><!-- Start Shareaholic LikeButtonSetTop Automatic --><!-- End Shareaholic LikeButtonSetTop Automatic --><div class="tweetmeme_button" style="float: right; margin-right: 10px;">
			<a href="http://api.tweetmeme.com/share?url=http%3A%2F%2Faskjamesholmes.com%2Frichard-bransons-necker-island-home-burns"><br />
				<img src="http://api.tweetmeme.com/imagebutton.gif?url=http%3A%2F%2Faskjamesholmes.com%2Frichard-bransons-necker-island-home-burns&amp;source=AskJamesHolmes&amp;style=normal&amp;service=bit.ly&amp;b=2" height="61" width="50" title="Richard Bransons Necker Island Home Burns" alt=" Richard Bransons Necker Island Home Burns" /><br />
			</a>
		</div>
<p><strong>Richard Branson Another Remarkable Chapter</strong></p>
<p><a href="http://askjamesholmes.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/08/Necker-Island-Fire-1.jpg"><img class="alignnone size-full wp-image-2933" title="Necker-Island-Fire-1" src="http://askjamesholmes.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/08/Necker-Island-Fire-1.jpg" alt="Necker Island Fire 1 Richard Bransons Necker Island Home Burns" width="303" height="208" /></a></p>
<p>If you are a regular reader of my blog you may have seen prior post and videos I have shared featuring <strong>Sir Richard Branson</strong>. I am a great admirer of his entrepreneurial spirit and his accomplishments as the original <strong>Maverick Entrepreneur</strong>.</p>
<p>Richard Branson started from nothing and since his late teens has taken the risk and made necessary sacrifices to emerge as one of the most innovative and wealthy self starters of all time. He has become a billionaire as a result of hard work coupled with creativity and a flare that has made him very popular and love around the world. Along the way he has given away millions and helped thousands of people better their lives. Richard Branson&#8217;s causes are as big as his vision and imagination including ending poverty, saving the environment, furthering space exploration, and much more.</p>
<p>His home will be rebuilt and according to Mr. Branson&#8230; even better than before. The true loss was the journals, photographs, and other irreplaceable documents which chronicled the career that has spanned many decades, cultures, and industries. By God&#8217;s grace no one was injured and for that all of us as human beings can collectively extend our gratitude to everyone involved. I wanted to pause for a moment and share a few thoughts to consider.</p>
<p>If you are not familiar with Sir Richard, here is an insightful interview recorded March 2007 during a <strong>TED Conference</strong> and the interview holds several key business and life lessons. The interview is 29:55 in length and worth every minute. If you seek to learn how a billionaire thinks, how to extend a brand, and understand the rewards of taking risk &#8211; this interview is for you.</p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><strong>Sir Richard Branson is Interview for a TED Talk</strong></p>
<p><center><object width="526" height="374" classid="clsid:d27cdb6e-ae6d-11cf-96b8-444553540000" codebase="http://download.macromedia.com/pub/shockwave/cabs/flash/swflash.cab#version=6,0,40,0"><param name="allowFullScreen" value="true" /><param name="allowScriptAccess" value="always" /><param name="wmode" value="transparent" /><param name="bgColor" value="#ffffff" /><param name="flashvars" value="vu=http://video.ted.com/talk/stream/2007/Blank/RichardBranson_2007-320k.mp4&amp;su=http://images.ted.com/images/ted/tedindex/embed-posters/RichardBranson-2007.embed_thumbnail.jpg&amp;vw=512&amp;vh=288&amp;ap=0&amp;ti=181&amp;lang=&amp;introDuration=15330&amp;adDuration=4000&amp;postAdDuration=830&amp;adKeys=talk=richard_branson_s_life_at_30_000_feet;year=2007;theme=to_boldly_go;theme=not_business_as_usual;theme=the_creative_spark;event=TED2007;tag=Business;tag=Entertainment;tag=Global+Issues;tag=Technology;tag=aircraft;tag=entrepreneur;tag=interview;tag=music;tag=space;&amp;preAdTag=tconf.ted/embed;tile=1;sz=512x288;" /><param name="src" value="http://video.ted.com/assets/player/swf/EmbedPlayer.swf" /><param name="pluginspace" value="http://www.macromedia.com/go/getflashplayer" /><param name="allowfullscreen" value="true" /><param name="allowscriptaccess" value="always" /><embed width="526" height="374" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" src="http://video.ted.com/assets/player/swf/EmbedPlayer.swf" allowFullScreen="true" allowScriptAccess="always" wmode="transparent" bgColor="#ffffff" flashvars="vu=http://video.ted.com/talk/stream/2007/Blank/RichardBranson_2007-320k.mp4&amp;su=http://images.ted.com/images/ted/tedindex/embed-posters/RichardBranson-2007.embed_thumbnail.jpg&amp;vw=512&amp;vh=288&amp;ap=0&amp;ti=181&amp;lang=&amp;introDuration=15330&amp;adDuration=4000&amp;postAdDuration=830&amp;adKeys=talk=richard_branson_s_life_at_30_000_feet;year=2007;theme=to_boldly_go;theme=not_business_as_usual;theme=the_creative_spark;event=TED2007;tag=Business;tag=Entertainment;tag=Global+Issues;tag=Technology;tag=aircraft;tag=entrepreneur;tag=interview;tag=music;tag=space;&amp;preAdTag=tconf.ted/embed;tile=1;sz=512x288;" pluginspace="http://www.macromedia.com/go/getflashplayer" allowfullscreen="true" allowscriptaccess="always" /></object></center></p>
<p style="text-align: center;">Read More About <a title="Richard Branson at Virgin Group" href="http://www.virgin.com/richard-branson" target="_blank">Richard Branson</a></p>
<p><strong>Who is Richard Branson?</strong></p>
<p>Born in 1950 and educated at Stowe School were he founded his first venture Student magazine at the age of sixteen.</p>
<p>In 1970 Branson founded Virgin as a mail order record retailer, and shortly after opened a record shop on Oxford Street in the UK. In 1972 he built a recording studio in Oxfordshire where the first Virgin artist, Mike Oldfield, recorded &#8216;Tubular Bells&#8217;.</p>
<p>In 1977 Virgin signed the Sex Pistols and we went on to sign many household names from Culture Club to the Rolling Stones, helping to make Virgin Music one of the top six record companies in the world.</p>
<p>With around 200 companies in over 30 countries, the Virgin Group has now expanded into leisure, travel, tourism, mobile, broadband, TV, radio, music festivals, finance and health and through <a title="Virgin Green Fund" href="http://www.virgingreenfund.com/" target="_blank">Virgin Green Fund</a> Mr. Branson is investing in renewable energy and resource efficiency.</p>
<p><strong>In closing</strong></p>
<p>I owe much of my successes in life to developing a discipline to study successful people and a strong desire to understand how they think. I encourage you to do the same. Please take a few moments to scroll down to the bottom of this post and share your comments. I would love to read your thoughts and I would also be curious to know who has inspired you.</p>
<p>I am here to help you succeed in business and life!</p>
<p><img title="James_Holmes_Internet_Marketer" src="../wp-content/uploads/2009/11/230f7838ce3cae0635c29260bef6affc1.png" alt="230f7838ce3cae0635c29260bef6affc1 Richard Bransons Necker Island Home Burns" width="150" height="24" /></p>
<p>(c) Copyright 2008-2011 James A. Holmes. All Rights Reserved.</p>
<p>*************************</p>
<p>James Holmes, Global Team Builder, Coach and Trainer, combining online and offline techniques to help you grow your business. To request a free 30 minute consultation contact James by phone at 303-523-9503 or email at james@AskJamesHolmes.com</p>
<p>*************************</p>
<p>Note: If you’d like to reprint this article on your blog or in your newsletter you have permission to do so as long as the copyright information and the resource box above remains with the article.</p>
<div class="shr-publisher-2932"></div><!-- Start Shareaholic LikeButtonSetBottom Automatic --><div style="clear: both; min-height: 1px; height: 3px; width: 100%;"></div><div class='shareaholic-like-buttonset' style='float:none;height:30px;'><a class='shareaholic-googleplusone' data-shr_size='medium' data-shr_count='false' data-shr_href='http%3A%2F%2Faskjamesholmes.com%2Frichard-bransons-necker-island-home-burns' data-shr_title='Richard+Branson%27s+Necker+Island+Home+Burns'></a></div><div style="clear: both; min-height: 1px; height: 3px; width: 100%;"></div><!-- End Shareaholic LikeButtonSetBottom Automatic -->]]></content:encoded>
			<wfw:commentRss>http://askjamesholmes.com/richard-bransons-necker-island-home-burns/feed/</wfw:commentRss>
		<slash:comments>2</slash:comments>
		</item>
		<item>
		<title>Jim Rohn Challenged Us All To Be Better</title>
		<link>http://askjamesholmes.com/jim-rohn-challenged-us-all-to-be-better?utm_source=rss&#038;utm_medium=rss&#038;utm_campaign=jim-rohn-challenged-us-all-to-be-better</link>
		<comments>http://askjamesholmes.com/jim-rohn-challenged-us-all-to-be-better#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sat, 30 Jul 2011 21:10:07 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>JamesHolmes</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Mindset]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Personal Development]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[home business help]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[how to create success]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[jim rohn]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[jim rohn quotes]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[personal growth help]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[who is jim rohn]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[winning mindset]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://askjamesholmes.com/?p=2888</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Jim Rohn was a great man and has left an amazing legacy that I tap into time and time again. When I first began working in the home based business industry, I was given a Jim Rohn CD by my sponsor. It was in large part responsible for me understanding that although I was successful in mortgage banking, I had to become coach-able to learn new skills. Jim's phrase, "work harder on yourself than you do on your business." That simple advise caused a powerful transformation that has served me daily in my Internet business.

This video is a mere 14:54 in length, but the lessons are very powerful and if you internalize them and take action on what you learn here, you will make a quantum leap in your results. By bringing these principles to life as part of your daily method of operating your life will change!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<iframe src="http://www.facebook.com/plugins/like.php?href=http%3A%2F%2Faskjamesholmes.com%2Fjim-rohn-challenged-us-all-to-be-better&amp;layout=standard&amp;show_faces=true&amp;width=250&amp;action=like&amp;colorscheme=light" scrolling="no" frameborder="0" allowTransparency="true" style="border:none; overflow:hidden; width:250px;height:30px;margin-top:5px;"></iframe><!-- Start Shareaholic LikeButtonSetTop Automatic --><!-- End Shareaholic LikeButtonSetTop Automatic --><div class="tweetmeme_button" style="float: right; margin-right: 10px;">
			<a href="http://api.tweetmeme.com/share?url=http%3A%2F%2Faskjamesholmes.com%2Fjim-rohn-challenged-us-all-to-be-better"><br />
				<img src="http://api.tweetmeme.com/imagebutton.gif?url=http%3A%2F%2Faskjamesholmes.com%2Fjim-rohn-challenged-us-all-to-be-better&amp;source=AskJamesHolmes&amp;style=normal&amp;service=bit.ly&amp;b=2" height="61" width="50" title="Jim Rohn Challenged Us All To Be Better" alt=" Jim Rohn Challenged Us All To Be Better" /><br />
			</a>
		</div>
<p><strong>Jim Rohn Challenges Worthy of Your Pursuit</strong></p>
<p><a href="http://askjamesholmes.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/07/Jim-Rohn-James-Holmes.jpg"><img class="alignnone size-medium wp-image-2889" title="Jim-Rohn-James-Holmes" src="http://askjamesholmes.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/07/Jim-Rohn-James-Holmes-300x220.jpg" alt="Jim Rohn James Holmes 300x220 Jim Rohn Challenged Us All To Be Better" width="300" height="220" /></a></p>
<p><strong>Jim Rohn</strong> was a great man and has left an amazing legacy that I tap into time and time again. When I first began working in the home based business industry, I was given a Jim Rohn CD by my sponsor. It was in large part responsible for me understanding that although I was successful in mortgage banking, I had to become coach-able to learn new skills. Jim&#8217;s phrase, &#8220;work harder on yourself than you do on your business.&#8221; That simple advise caused a powerful transformation that has served me daily in my Internet business.</p>
<p>In this video <strong>Jim Rohn</strong> delivers a very powerful and if you internalize them and take action on what you learn here, you will make a quantum leap in your results. By bringing these principles to life as part of your daily method of operating your life will change!</p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><strong>Challenges Worthy of Your Pursuit</strong></p>
<p><a href="http://askjamesholmes.com/jim-rohn-challenged-us-all-to-be-better"><em>Click here to view the embedded video.</em></a></p>
<p>Here is a Summary of the key Points:</p>
<p>01. <strong>Review Your Performance</strong> &#8211; Always do more than you get paid for to make an investment in your future.</p>
<p>02. <strong>Face Your Fears</strong> &#8211; Don&#8217;t dismiss them just face them and ask what you can do to change their cause.</p>
<p>03. <strong>Exercise Your Will Power</strong> &#8211; Don&#8217;t continue doing things that are against you desires, pick a new direction.<strong><br />
</strong></p>
<p>04. <strong>Admit Your Mistakes</strong> &#8211; Discover the power of the words I am sorry including saying it to yourself.</p>
<p>05. <strong>Refine Your Goals</strong> &#8211; Revisiting your ambitions and decide to reach even higher.</p>
<p>06.<strong> Believe in Yourself</strong> &#8211; God, community, possibilities, economy is all fine but you have to believe in yourself.</p>
<p>07. <strong>Ask for Wisdom</strong> &#8211; Seek the answers to your biggest questions and ask for the faith to believe.</p>
<p>08. <strong>Conserve Your Time</strong> &#8211; Recognize that it is not just about the years you think you have, but even more how many more chances do I have?</p>
<p>09. <strong>Invest Your Profits</strong> &#8211; Wages make you a living and profits make you a fortune, so invest wisely.<strong></strong></p>
<p>10.<strong> Protect Your Family</strong> &#8211; From the hidden dangers</p>
<p>11.<strong> Live with Intensity</strong> &#8211; Invest more of you in everything you do and seek more vitality. Live with more intensity!</p>
<p>12.<strong> Find Your Place</strong> &#8211; Do the best you can with where you are now and take leaps forward. Where you are today find the best place to serve.</p>
<p>13. <strong>Demand Integrity from Yourself</strong> &#8211; Integrity is like loyalty if you are the best example of integrity you will attract integrity.</p>
<p>14. <strong>Welcome Disciplines</strong> &#8211; Bring discipline into your life because they create reality in your live.</p>
<p>15. <strong>Fight for What is Right &#8211; </strong>Recognize that you are in a fight whether you like it or not, so chose to fight for what is right.<strong><br />
</strong></p>
<p><strong>Who is Jim Rohn?</strong></p>
<p>For more than 40 years, Jim Rohn honed his craft like a skilled artist-helping people the world over sculpt life strategies that have expanded their imagination of what is possible. Those who had the privilege of hearing him speak can attest to the elegance and common sense of his material. It is no coincidence, then, that he is widely regarded as one of the most influential thinkers of our time, and thought of by many as a national treasure. Jim authored countless books and audio and video programs, and helped motivate and shape an entire generation of personal-development trainers and hundreds of executives from America&#8217;s top corporations.</p>
<p>Jim Rohn focused on the fundamentals of human behavior that most affect personal and business performance. His is the standard to which those who seek to teach and inspire others are compared. He possessed the unique ability to bring extraordinary insights to ordinary principles and events, and the combination of his substance and style captures the imagination of those who hear or read his words.</p>
<p>Here is a sampling from <strong>Jim Rohn&#8217;s Treasury of Quotes</strong> that reflect on his philosophy on life and business:</p>
<p><strong>Skills:</strong> Don&#8217;t wish it were easier; wish you were better. Don&#8217;t wish for less problems; wish for more skills. Don&#8217;t wish for less challenges; wish for more wisdom.</p>
<p><strong>Growth:</strong> Don&#8217;t join an easy crowd. You won&#8217;t grow. Go where the expectations and the demands to perform and achieve are high.</p>
<p><strong>Change:</strong> We generally change ourselves for one of two reasons: inspiration or desperation.</p>
<p><strong>Activity:</strong> The few who do are the envy of the many who watch.</p>
<p><strong>Success:</strong> Success is what you attract by the person you become.</p>
<p>I would love to read your comments and let me know which of these principles you intend to act on in your life. Please scroll down to the bottom of this post and leave a comment and thank you for reading my blog.</p>
<p>I am here to help you succeed online and achieve your ideal Internet lifestyle!</p>
<p><img title="James_Holmes_Internet_Marketer" src="../wp-content/uploads/2009/11/230f7838ce3cae0635c29260bef6affc1.png" alt="230f7838ce3cae0635c29260bef6affc1 Jim Rohn Challenged Us All To Be Better" width="150" height="24" /></p>
<p>(c) Copyright 2008-2011 James A. Holmes. All Rights Reserved.</p>
<p>*************************</p>
<p>James Holmes, Global Team Builder, Coach and Trainer, combining online and offline techniques to help you grow your business. To request a free 30 minute consultation contact James by phone at 303-523-9503 or email at james@AskJamesHolmes.com</p>
<p>*************************</p>
<p>Note: If you’d like to reprint this article on your blog or in your newsletter you have permission to do so as long as the copyright information and the resource box above remains with the article.</p>
<div class="shr-publisher-2888"></div><!-- Start Shareaholic LikeButtonSetBottom Automatic --><div style="clear: both; min-height: 1px; height: 3px; width: 100%;"></div><div class='shareaholic-like-buttonset' style='float:none;height:30px;'><a class='shareaholic-googleplusone' data-shr_size='medium' data-shr_count='false' data-shr_href='http%3A%2F%2Faskjamesholmes.com%2Fjim-rohn-challenged-us-all-to-be-better' data-shr_title='Jim+Rohn+Challenged+Us+All+To+Be+Better'></a></div><div style="clear: both; min-height: 1px; height: 3px; width: 100%;"></div><!-- End Shareaholic LikeButtonSetBottom Automatic -->]]></content:encoded>
			<wfw:commentRss>http://askjamesholmes.com/jim-rohn-challenged-us-all-to-be-better/feed/</wfw:commentRss>
		<slash:comments>0</slash:comments>
		</item>
		<item>
		<title>Learn to Embrace and Bust Your Personal Stories</title>
		<link>http://askjamesholmes.com/learn-to-embrace-and-bust-your-personal-stories?utm_source=rss&#038;utm_medium=rss&#038;utm_campaign=learn-to-embrace-and-bust-your-personal-stories</link>
		<comments>http://askjamesholmes.com/learn-to-embrace-and-bust-your-personal-stories#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 25 Jul 2011 17:45:31 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>JamesHolmes</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Coaching]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Mindset]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Personal Development]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[bethenny frankel stories]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[breaking life stories]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[busting negative stories]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[how bethenny frankel succeeded]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[how to achieve your vision]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[how to overcome doubt]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[internet marketing help]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[james holmes]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[manifesting your perfect life]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[success thinking]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://askjamesholmes.com/?p=2857</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[I wanted to share another lesson with you from my recent trip to Vail, Colorado and what I have learned by looking inward and developing a clearer focus on my personal life vision. A few weeks ago I wrote post on "manifesting your perfect life" and mentioned my intention to share other thoughts from what was a very reflective time for me. Today, we are going to talk about busting stories.

Bethenny Frankel has manifested the life of her greatest vision and truly has it all, a husband that loves her, a beautiful healthy child, good friends, a thriving career, mega-million dollar wealth, the respect of her peers and the admiration of her fans. All of this is true but Bethenny's journey has not been easy and along the way she had to break a number of deep rooted stories formed over a lifetime of emotional abuse, parental cruelty and neglect.

I have followed Bethenny's story as millions of others have by watching it all play out from her runner up status on Martha Stewart's Apprentice, to the Real Housewives of New York, to Bethenny Gets Married, and continuing with Bethenny Ever-after. Sure, watching her story play out has made for good television, yet the lessons are much bigger and provide the true value to be gleaned from the example she represents. Bethenny's story serves as the perfect guide to what becomes possible when we decide to bust our stories.

The picture above is a thumbnail from the June 6, 2011 cover of Forbes Magazine which hit the news stands during my Vail visit and made for enlightened reading a layer below the obvious.  After reading about the sale of Skinnygirl Cocktails line to Jim Beam for a reported $120 million, I thought what a perfect reward and affirmation of Bethenny's willingness to bust her stories and take control of her life vision.

Regardless of what you want to accomplish in your life, money, fame, respect, a happy family, a loving relationship, health, a fulfilling spiritual life, purpose, etc. You can accomplish it with the freedom of a clean slate and the best part is that you control for yourself. No one gets to define you once you take back your power by embracing your past and then breaking the stories that no longer server, or perhaps never did.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<iframe src="http://www.facebook.com/plugins/like.php?href=http%3A%2F%2Faskjamesholmes.com%2Flearn-to-embrace-and-bust-your-personal-stories&amp;layout=standard&amp;show_faces=true&amp;width=250&amp;action=like&amp;colorscheme=light" scrolling="no" frameborder="0" allowTransparency="true" style="border:none; overflow:hidden; width:250px;height:30px;margin-top:5px;"></iframe><!-- Start Shareaholic LikeButtonSetTop Automatic --><!-- End Shareaholic LikeButtonSetTop Automatic --><div class="tweetmeme_button" style="float: right; margin-right: 10px;">
			<a href="http://api.tweetmeme.com/share?url=http%3A%2F%2Faskjamesholmes.com%2Flearn-to-embrace-and-bust-your-personal-stories"><br />
				<img src="http://api.tweetmeme.com/imagebutton.gif?url=http%3A%2F%2Faskjamesholmes.com%2Flearn-to-embrace-and-bust-your-personal-stories&amp;source=AskJamesHolmes&amp;style=normal&amp;service=bit.ly&amp;b=2" height="61" width="50" title="Learn to Embrace and Bust Your Personal Stories" alt=" Learn to Embrace and Bust Your Personal Stories" /><br />
			</a>
		</div>
<p><a href="http://askjamesholmes.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/07/bethenny-frankel-forbes-cover-success.jpg"><img class="alignnone size-medium wp-image-2885" title="0606 forbes celeb final" src="http://askjamesholmes.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/07/bethenny-frankel-forbes-cover-success-223x300.jpg" alt="bethenny frankel forbes cover success 223x300 Learn to Embrace and Bust Your Personal Stories" width="223" height="300" /></a></p>
<p>I wanted to share another lesson with you from my recent trip to <strong>Vail, Colorado</strong> and what I have learned by looking inward and developing a clearer focus on my personal life vision. A few weeks ago I wrote a post on &#8220;<a title="Manisfesting Your Perfect Life" href="http://askjamesholmes.com/four-steps-to-manifesting-your-perfect-life" target="_blank">manifesting your perfect life</a>&#8221; and mentioned my intention to share other thoughts from what was a very reflective time for me. Today, we are going to talk about busting stories.</p>
<p><strong>Bethenny Frankel</strong> has manifested the life of her greatest vision and truly has it all; a husband that loves her, a beautiful healthy child, good friends, a thriving career, mega-million dollar wealth, the respect of her peers and the admiration of her fans. All of this is true but Bethenny&#8217;s journey has not been easy and along the way she had to break a number of deep rooted stories formed over a lifetime of emotional abuse, parental cruelty and neglect.</p>
<p>I have followed Bethenny&#8217;s story as millions of others have by watching it all play out from her runner up status on Martha Stewart&#8217;s Apprentice, to the Real Housewives of New York, to Bethenny Gets Married, and continuing with Bethenny Ever-after. Sure, watching her story play-out has made for good television, yet the lessons are much bigger and provide the true value to be gleaned from the example she represents. Bethenny&#8217;s story serves as the perfect guide to what becomes possible when we decide to bust our stories.</p>
<p>The picture above is a thumbnail from the June 6, 2011 cover of <strong>Forbes Magazine</strong> which hit the news stands during my Vail visit and made for enlightened reading,  just a layer below the obvious.  After reading about the sale of her <strong>Skinnygirl Cocktails</strong> line to Jim Beam for a reported $120 million, I thought what a perfect reward and affirmation of Bethenny&#8217;s willingness to bust her stories and take control of her life vision.</p>
<p>Regardless of what you want to accomplish in your life; money, fame, respect, a happy family, a loving relationship, health, a fulfilling spiritual life, purpose, etc. You can accomplish it with the freedom of a clean slate and the best part is that you control it for yourself. No one gets to define you once you take back your power by embracing your past and then breaking the stories that no longer serve you or perhaps never did.</p>
<p><strong>The 6 Steps to Busting Your Stories</strong></p>
<ul>
<li><strong>Acknowledge</strong> your past and recognize that everything that has occurred in your life both good and not so good has resulted in your arrival in this moment. Whenever I begin beating myself up about choices I have made, I remind myself that another choice may have landed me in the wrong place at the wrong time or limited the opportunities I have today. Embracing your past provides you with the ability to gain power from the experiences you are proud of, happy about, and all that has molded you.</li>
<li><strong> Know Who You Are</strong> and refuse to let others define you. It is a flaw in human nature that we tend to judge people by their past and come to expect nothing more than what we have previously experienced. This can work against you by allowing others to control how you feel about yourself and what you will be able to accomplish in life. Make a clear decision to treat your past as prologue to your perfect future and be unapologetic when others become uncomfortable with your unwillingness to relive the old stories.</li>
<li><strong>Set a Perfect New Vision</strong> of what you want your life to be in reality. Once you become clear on what you want, you will know the right questions to ask in order to bring it into physical reality. Witness as the people, resources and situations emerge in your life to make your vision real. Everything you need to achieve your clearly formed vision will appear and the old stories and stumbling blocks of the past will simply not matter or fail to show up at all.</li>
<li><strong>Comfortably Hold Onto Your Vision</strong> as it begins to manifest in your life. The creation process will deliver results in your life more quickly based on your ability to comfortably hold your new vision and belief in the outcome you want. Despite of the challenges you face along your journey or sudden doubts that may appear, focus on your vision and maintain both an intellectual awareness and an emotional awareness of what you desire to achieve.</li>
<li><strong>Act on Your Vision</strong> by showing up and engage in the creation process of life when you recognize an opportunity to take another step toward your perfect vision. Bust the stories that do not apply, overcome doubt, break through self-limiting beliefs and recognize that you do not need to have all of the answers at once. The path to your perfect life will unfold before you when you focus on the bigger vision.</li>
<li><strong>Live in Gratitude</strong> for all you have experienced in your life, be thankful for what you have today and for the manifestations along your journey toward the life you have envisioned.</li>
</ul>
<p style="text-align: left;"><em>&#8220;Take the first step in faith. You do not have to see the whole staircase, just take the first step.&#8221;</em> &#8211; <strong>Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr.</strong></p>
<p><strong>Bethenny Frankel</strong> is just one of many people who have broken through and achieve fulfillment in many aspects of life. Regardless of how humble or grand your aspirations, you alone hold the keys. Tap into your God given power and set a vision worthy of your gifts and true desires.</p>
<p>I would love to read your comments and if you are inspired to share a story of how you have been able to breakthrough and bust old stories in your life, I would welcome that as well. Scroll down to the bottom of this post and leave your comments or questions.</p>
<p>If this blog post has provided value for you, feel free to use the Facebook or Twitter buttons to share it with your friends.</p>
<p>I have so much more to share and will do so in future post. I am here to help you succeed and create the businesses you have dreamed about and by being here you have taken action on your intention.</p>
<p>Have a blessed day!</p>
<p><img title="James_Holmes_Internet_Marketer" src="../wp-content/uploads/2009/11/230f7838ce3cae0635c29260bef6affc1.png" alt="230f7838ce3cae0635c29260bef6affc1 Learn to Embrace and Bust Your Personal Stories" width="150" height="24" /></p>
<p>P.S. If you want to learn more about the 11 Forgotten Laws watch my videos at:</p>
<p><a title="James Holmes Video blog" href="http://www.jamesholmes.tv/">http://www.JamesHolmes.tv</a></p>
<p>(c) Copyright 2008-2011 James A. Holmes. All Rights Reserved.</p>
<p>*************************</p>
<p>James Holmes, Global Team Builder, Coach and Trainer, combining online and offline techniques to help you grow your business. To request a free 30 minute consultation contact James by phone at 303-523-9503 or email at james@AskJamesHolmes.com</p>
<p>*************************</p>
<p>Note: If you’d like to reprint this article on your blog or in your newsletter you have permission to do so as long as the copyright information and the resource box above remains with the article.</p>
<div class="shr-publisher-2857"></div><!-- Start Shareaholic LikeButtonSetBottom Automatic --><div style="clear: both; min-height: 1px; height: 3px; width: 100%;"></div><div class='shareaholic-like-buttonset' style='float:none;height:30px;'><a class='shareaholic-googleplusone' data-shr_size='medium' data-shr_count='false' data-shr_href='http%3A%2F%2Faskjamesholmes.com%2Flearn-to-embrace-and-bust-your-personal-stories' data-shr_title='Learn+to+Embrace+and+Bust+Your+Personal+Stories'></a></div><div style="clear: both; min-height: 1px; height: 3px; width: 100%;"></div><!-- End Shareaholic LikeButtonSetBottom Automatic -->]]></content:encoded>
			<wfw:commentRss>http://askjamesholmes.com/learn-to-embrace-and-bust-your-personal-stories/feed/</wfw:commentRss>
		<slash:comments>1</slash:comments>
		</item>
		<item>
		<title>Live Personal Mentorship with James Holmes</title>
		<link>http://askjamesholmes.com/live-personal-mentorship-with-james-holmes?utm_source=rss&#038;utm_medium=rss&#038;utm_campaign=live-personal-mentorship-with-james-holmes</link>
		<comments>http://askjamesholmes.com/live-personal-mentorship-with-james-holmes#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 30 Dec 2010 23:47:02 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>JamesHolmes</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Coaching]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Personal Development]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[home business training]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[internet entrepreneurs academy]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[internet marketing coaching]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[james holmes]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[work with james holmes]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://askjamesholmes.com/?p=2688</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[I have experimented over the past few months with weekly live coaching sessions in an effort to find the best solution for assisting those who are not in a paid coaching relationship with me, but still need help building their businesses. After trying a few different platforms and time schedules, I have settled on using a "virtual office" model.

The virtual office model provides for two open hours per week where you can casually drop into my web conference room and get my personal assistance with your business. This is a "free" coaching model and I welcome you to bring your challenges to these sessions as this will be an open forum, not a structured presentation or webinar.

By following the instructions below, you will be able to join me in my virtual office and speak with me directly. I will also be able to share resources with you, discuss ideas and help you sort through any business challenges you may have.

My virtual office hours are Monday mornings from 10:00 to 11:00 AM EST and Friday mornings from 10:00 to 11:00 AM EST. I also can schedule a complimentary private :20 private consultation for one on one training.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<iframe src="http://www.facebook.com/plugins/like.php?href=http%3A%2F%2Faskjamesholmes.com%2Flive-personal-mentorship-with-james-holmes&amp;layout=standard&amp;show_faces=true&amp;width=250&amp;action=like&amp;colorscheme=light" scrolling="no" frameborder="0" allowTransparency="true" style="border:none; overflow:hidden; width:250px;height:30px;margin-top:5px;"></iframe><!-- Start Shareaholic LikeButtonSetTop Automatic --><!-- End Shareaholic LikeButtonSetTop Automatic --><div class="tweetmeme_button" style="float: right; margin-right: 10px;">
			<a href="http://api.tweetmeme.com/share?url=http%3A%2F%2Faskjamesholmes.com%2Flive-personal-mentorship-with-james-holmes"><br />
				<img src="http://api.tweetmeme.com/imagebutton.gif?url=http%3A%2F%2Faskjamesholmes.com%2Flive-personal-mentorship-with-james-holmes&amp;source=AskJamesHolmes&amp;style=normal&amp;service=bit.ly&amp;b=2" height="61" width="50" title="Live Personal Mentorship with James Holmes" alt=" Live Personal Mentorship with James Holmes" /><br />
			</a>
		</div>
<p style="text-align: left;"><a href="http://askjamesholmes.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/12/JamesHolmesSpeakingatMasterm-11.jpg"><img class="size-medium wp-image-2690 alignnone" title="JamesHolmesSpeakingatMasterm-1" src="http://askjamesholmes.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/12/JamesHolmesSpeakingatMasterm-11-300x300.jpg" alt="JamesHolmesSpeakingatMasterm 11 300x300 Live Personal Mentorship with James Holmes" width="216" height="216" /></a></p>
<p>I have experimented over the past few months with weekly live coaching sessions in an effort to find the best solution for assisting those who are not in a paid coaching relationship with me, but still need help building their businesses. After trying a few different platforms and time schedules, I have settled on using a &#8220;virtual office&#8221; model.</p>
<p>The virtual office model provides for two open hours per week where you can casually drop into my web conference room and get my personal assistance with your business. This is a &#8220;<strong>free coaching</strong>&#8221; model and I welcome you to bring your challenges to these sessions as this is an open forum, not a structured presentation or webinar.</p>
<p>By following the instructions below, you will be able to join me in my virtual office and speak with me directly. I will also be able to share resources with you, discuss ideas and help you sort through any business challenges you may have.</p>
<p>My virtual office hours are<strong>Tuesday</strong> mornings from <strong>9:00 to 10:00 AM EST</strong> and <strong>Thursday</strong> mornings from <strong>9:00 to 10:00 AM EST</strong>. I also can schedule a complimentary private :20 private consultation for one on one training.</p>
<p><strong>Do The Following:</strong></p>
<ol>
<li>Go To: <a title="James Holmes Virtual Office" href="http://www.ViralWebcast.com" target="_blank">http://www.ViralWebcast.com</a></li>
<li>User Name: Please enter your First Name AND Last Name in this box</li>
<li>Password: None Required</li>
<li>Connection Speed: You must select the speed of your Internet Connection.</li>
</ol>
<p>I am looking forward to 2011 and I think it will be a very big year, full of possibities and prosperity. I am here to help you succeed and I believe these weekly open door sessions will allow me to provide the greatest amount of value for a larger group of people.</p>
<p>Have a blessed day!</p>
<p><img title="James_Holmes_Internet_Marketer" src="http://askjamesholmes.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/11/230f7838ce3cae0635c29260bef6affc1.png" alt="230f7838ce3cae0635c29260bef6affc1 Live Personal Mentorship with James Holmes" width="150" height="24" /></p>
<p>P.S. As I write this post there are 84 Lifetime Membership Available:</p>
<p><strong><a href="http://trckrs.com/26870/AskJamesHolmesVIP" target="_blank"><strong>http://trckrs.com/26870/AskJamesHolmesVIP</strong></a></strong></p>
<p>(c) Copyright 2008-2010 James A. Holmes. All Rights Reserved.</p>
<p>*************************</p>
<p>James Holmes, Global Team Builder, Coach and Trainer, combining online and offline techniques to help you grow your business. To request a free 30 minute consultation contact James by phone at 303-523-9503 or email at james@AskJamesHolmes.com</p>
<p>*************************</p>
<p>Note: If you’d like to reprint this article on your blog or in your newsletter you have permission to do so as long as the copyright information and the resource box above remains with the article.</p>
<div class="shr-publisher-2688"></div><!-- Start Shareaholic LikeButtonSetBottom Automatic --><div style="clear: both; min-height: 1px; height: 3px; width: 100%;"></div><div class='shareaholic-like-buttonset' style='float:none;height:30px;'><a class='shareaholic-googleplusone' data-shr_size='medium' data-shr_count='false' data-shr_href='http%3A%2F%2Faskjamesholmes.com%2Flive-personal-mentorship-with-james-holmes' data-shr_title='Live+Personal+Mentorship+with+James+Holmes'></a></div><div style="clear: both; min-height: 1px; height: 3px; width: 100%;"></div><!-- End Shareaholic LikeButtonSetBottom Automatic -->]]></content:encoded>
			<wfw:commentRss>http://askjamesholmes.com/live-personal-mentorship-with-james-holmes/feed/</wfw:commentRss>
		<slash:comments>0</slash:comments>
		</item>
		<item>
		<title>Saturday Morning Coffee Calls Are About Success!</title>
		<link>http://askjamesholmes.com/saturday-morning-coffee-calls-are-about-success?utm_source=rss&#038;utm_medium=rss&#038;utm_campaign=saturday-morning-coffee-calls-are-about-success</link>
		<comments>http://askjamesholmes.com/saturday-morning-coffee-calls-are-about-success#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sat, 23 Oct 2010 21:57:23 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>JamesHolmes</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Marketing]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Personal Development]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Establishing Your Marketing Funnel]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Establishing Your Online Presence]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Establishing Your Sales]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[FunnelDeveloping Your Income Streams]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[guided internet marketing coaching program]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[help making money online]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[How to Maintain Your Focus]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[james holmes]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Make Money Online]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Merit Based Private Coaching Sessions]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Mindset]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[saturday coffee call]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Weekly Group Call Sessions]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://askjamesholmes.com/?p=2631</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[I first entered into the home business industry in July 2007 and I have worked with my primary business since September 9, 2008, which in the age of program hoping is worth a quick mention. The bottom line is that I have created a success online and I have a burning desire to share what I have learned with others - remember my personal mission statement: "To sow increase into the lives of others by co-creating wealth and abundance." So, it is in my nature to want to help you succeed!

Almost from the very beginning of my home business career, I began hosting a weekly mastermind called the "Saturday Morning Call" and based on the feedback I have received from the participants - they gain value from these sessions. I am starting a new phase with our calls and I want to invite you to join us.

Here is what we are going to be working on:]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<iframe src="http://www.facebook.com/plugins/like.php?href=http%3A%2F%2Faskjamesholmes.com%2Fsaturday-morning-coffee-calls-are-about-success&amp;layout=standard&amp;show_faces=true&amp;width=250&amp;action=like&amp;colorscheme=light" scrolling="no" frameborder="0" allowTransparency="true" style="border:none; overflow:hidden; width:250px;height:30px;margin-top:5px;"></iframe><!-- Start Shareaholic LikeButtonSetTop Automatic --><!-- End Shareaholic LikeButtonSetTop Automatic --><div class="tweetmeme_button" style="float: right; margin-right: 10px;">
			<a href="http://api.tweetmeme.com/share?url=http%3A%2F%2Faskjamesholmes.com%2Fsaturday-morning-coffee-calls-are-about-success"><br />
				<img src="http://api.tweetmeme.com/imagebutton.gif?url=http%3A%2F%2Faskjamesholmes.com%2Fsaturday-morning-coffee-calls-are-about-success&amp;source=AskJamesHolmes&amp;style=normal&amp;service=bit.ly&amp;b=2" height="61" width="50" title="Saturday Morning Coffee Calls Are About Success!" alt=" Saturday Morning Coffee Calls Are About Success!" /><br />
			</a>
		</div>
<p><a href="http://askjamesholmes.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/10/building-the-bridge-to-success.jpg"><img class="alignnone size-medium wp-image-2632" title="How-to-make-money-online" src="http://askjamesholmes.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/10/building-the-bridge-to-success-300x225.jpg" alt="building the bridge to success 300x225 Saturday Morning Coffee Calls Are About Success!" width="300" height="225" /></a></p>
<p>I first entered into the home business industry in <strong>July 2007</strong> and I have worked with my primary business since September 9, 2008, which in the age of program hoping is worth a quick mention. The bottom line is that I have created a success online and I have a burning desire to share what I have learned with others &#8211; remember my personal mission statement: &#8220;<strong>To sow increase into the lives of others by co-creating wealth and abundance</strong>.&#8221; So, it is in my nature to want to help you succeed!</p>
<p>Almost from the very beginning of my home business career, I began hosting a weekly mastermind called the &#8220;<strong><a title="Saturday Morning Call" href="http://www.talkshoe.com/tc/86462" target="_self">Saturday Morning Call</a></strong>&#8221; and based on the feedback I have received from the participants &#8211; they gain value from these sessions. I am starting a new phase with our calls and I want to invite you to join us.</p>
<p>Here is what we are going to be working on:</p>
<p>1.) <strong>Mindset &#8211; How to Maintain Your Focus</strong></p>
<p>2.) <strong>Establishing Your Online Presence</strong></p>
<p>3.) <strong>Establishing Your Marketing Funnel</strong></p>
<p>4.) <strong>Establishing Your Sales Funnel</strong></p>
<p>5.) <strong>Developing Your Income Streams</strong></p>
<p>6.) <strong>Weekly Group Call Sessions</strong></p>
<p>7.) <strong>Merit Based Private Coaching Sessions</strong></p>
<p>Invest 52 minutes and listen to the recording from the call today and plan to join me next week.</p>
<p><object id="LastFramePlayer" classid="clsid:d27cdb6e-ae6d-11cf-96b8-444553540000" width="173" height="60" codebase="http://download.macromedia.com/pub/shockwave/cabs/flash/swflash.cab#version=6,0,40,0"><param name="align" value="top" /><param name="allowScriptAccess" value="always" /><param name="allowFullScreen" value="false" /><param name="quality" value="high" /><param name="bgcolor" value="#EEF9C1" /><param name="wmode" value="transparent" /><param name="src" value="http://www.talkshoe.com/resources/talkshoe/images/swf/lastEpisodePlayer.swf?fileUrl=http://recordings.talkshoe.com/TC-86462/TS-410118.mp3" /><param name="name" value="LastFramePlayer" /><param name="allowfullscreen" value="false" /><embed id="LastFramePlayer" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" width="173" height="60" src="http://www.talkshoe.com/resources/talkshoe/images/swf/lastEpisodePlayer.swf?fileUrl=http://recordings.talkshoe.com/TC-86462/TS-410118.mp3" name="LastFramePlayer" wmode="transparent" bgcolor="#EEF9C1" quality="high" allowfullscreen="false" allowscriptaccess="always" align="top"></embed></object></p>
<p>Here is a link to the Call Home Page: <strong><a title="Saturday Morning Coffee Call" href="http://www.talkshoe.com/tc/86462" target="_blank">The Saturday Morning Coffee Call</a></strong></p>
<p>Be sure to post a comment or offer your feedback on the call. This is going to be a guided mastermind to help you break through to a higher level of success.</p>
<p>I am here to help you succeed in your business and life!</p>
<p><a href="http://askjamesholmes.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/11/230f7838ce3cae0635c29260bef6affc1.png"><img title="James_Holmes_Internet_Marketer" src="http://askjamesholmes.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/11/230f7838ce3cae0635c29260bef6affc1.png" alt="230f7838ce3cae0635c29260bef6affc1 Saturday Morning Coffee Calls Are About Success!" width="150" height="24" /></a></p>
<p>P.S. The ClickBank Automated Income program is still running and you can join it at anytime. Just complete the 3 Steps to Get Started:</p>
<p><a title="How to Make $1000 in 30 Days Online" href="http://askjamesholmes.com/how-to-make-1000-online-in-30-days" target="_blank">http://askjamesholmes.com/how-to-make-1000-online-in-30-days</a></p>
<p>(c) Copyright 2008-2010 James A. Holmes. All Rights Reserved.</p>
<p>*************************</p>
<p>James Holmes, Global Team Builder, Coach and Trainer, combining online and offline techniques to help you grow your business. To request a free 30 minute consultation contact James by phone at 303-523-9503 or email at james@AskJamesHolmes.com</p>
<p>*************************</p>
<p>Note: If you’d like to reprint this article on your blog or in your newsletter you have permission to do so as long as the copyright information and the resource box above remains with the article.</p>
<div class="shr-publisher-2631"></div><!-- Start Shareaholic LikeButtonSetBottom Automatic --><div style="clear: both; min-height: 1px; height: 3px; width: 100%;"></div><div class='shareaholic-like-buttonset' style='float:none;height:30px;'><a class='shareaholic-googleplusone' data-shr_size='medium' data-shr_count='false' data-shr_href='http%3A%2F%2Faskjamesholmes.com%2Fsaturday-morning-coffee-calls-are-about-success' data-shr_title='Saturday+Morning+Coffee+Calls+Are+About+Success%21'></a></div><div style="clear: both; min-height: 1px; height: 3px; width: 100%;"></div><!-- End Shareaholic LikeButtonSetBottom Automatic -->]]></content:encoded>
			<wfw:commentRss>http://askjamesholmes.com/saturday-morning-coffee-calls-are-about-success/feed/</wfw:commentRss>
		<slash:comments>0</slash:comments>
		</item>
		<item>
		<title>How to Manage Your Internet Marketing Business and Balance Your Life</title>
		<link>http://askjamesholmes.com/how-to-manage-your-internet-marketing-business-and-balance-your-life?utm_source=rss&#038;utm_medium=rss&#038;utm_campaign=how-to-manage-your-internet-marketing-business-and-balance-your-life</link>
		<comments>http://askjamesholmes.com/how-to-manage-your-internet-marketing-business-and-balance-your-life#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 30 Sep 2010 03:20:52 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>JamesHolmes</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Coaching]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Personal Development]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[god has a life plan for you]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[home business training]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[how to maintain life balance]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[internet marketers and life balance]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[internet marketing help]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://askjamesholmes.com/?p=2609</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[<div>I am notorious for killing the viral email progress of any message that comes to my in box with the request to <em>pass it on</em> ... I wont and in fact, I usually won't even read the email. Just ask my sisters - they will both be nodding their heads!</div><p>
<div>Well there are exceptions to every rule and I wanted to share on with you. <a title="Connie Clark Be Healthy Solutions" href="http://www.behealthysolutions.com" target="_blank">Connie Clark</a> a dear friend and business associate sent me a very beautiful email tonight and for some odd reason I chose to read it although it is one of those <em>pass it on</em> types... oh well, glad I did.</div></p><p>
<div>The Internet can become all consuming especially for someone like me who absolutely loves it. The problem is that it is so easy to get drawn in and let the hours, days, and weeks roll by and before you know it your family doesn't recognize you, your friends stop inviting you to lunch, and you are living completely out of balance... not good.</div></p><p>
<div>So, when this message crossed my in box shortly after having a related conversation with another dear friend, I began to wonder if you face the same life balance challenges and if so, would you be as blessed by this simple yet powerful message similar to how it impacted me? I figured there was only one way to find out... share it with you.</div></p><p></p>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<iframe src="http://www.facebook.com/plugins/like.php?href=http%3A%2F%2Faskjamesholmes.com%2Fhow-to-manage-your-internet-marketing-business-and-balance-your-life&amp;layout=standard&amp;show_faces=true&amp;width=250&amp;action=like&amp;colorscheme=light" scrolling="no" frameborder="0" allowTransparency="true" style="border:none; overflow:hidden; width:250px;height:30px;margin-top:5px;"></iframe><!-- Start Shareaholic LikeButtonSetTop Automatic --><!-- End Shareaholic LikeButtonSetTop Automatic --><div class="tweetmeme_button" style="float: right; margin-right: 10px;">
			<a href="http://api.tweetmeme.com/share?url=http%3A%2F%2Faskjamesholmes.com%2Fhow-to-manage-your-internet-marketing-business-and-balance-your-life"><br />
				<img src="http://api.tweetmeme.com/imagebutton.gif?url=http%3A%2F%2Faskjamesholmes.com%2Fhow-to-manage-your-internet-marketing-business-and-balance-your-life&amp;source=AskJamesHolmes&amp;style=normal&amp;service=bit.ly&amp;b=2" height="61" width="50" title="How to Manage Your Internet Marketing Business and Balance Your Life" alt=" How to Manage Your Internet Marketing Business and Balance Your Life" /><br />
			</a>
		</div>
<div id="_mcePaste">
<div id="attachment_2610" class="wp-caption alignnone" style="width: 310px"><a href="http://askjamesholmes.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/09/Internet-Marketing-Life-Balance.jpg"><img class="size-medium wp-image-2610" title="Internet-Marketing-Life-Balance" src="http://askjamesholmes.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/09/Internet-Marketing-Life-Balance-300x239.jpg" alt="Internet Marketing Life Balance 300x239 How to Manage Your Internet Marketing Business and Balance Your Life" width="300" height="239" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Illustration by Claudia McGehee</p></div>
</div>
<div>I am notorious for killing the viral email progress of any message that comes to my in box with the request to <em>pass it on</em> &#8230; I wont and in fact, I usually won&#8217;t even read the email. Just ask my sisters &#8211; they will both be nodding their heads!</div>
<p><div>Well there are exceptions to every rule and I wanted to share on with you. <a title="Connie Clark Be Healthy Solutions" href="http://www.behealthysolutions.com" target="_blank">Connie Clark</a> a dear friend and business associate sent me a very beautiful email tonight and for some odd reason I chose to read it although it is one of those <em>pass it on</em> types&#8230; oh well, glad I did.</div>
</p>
<p><div>The Internet can become all consuming especially for someone like me who absolutely loves it. The problem is that it is so easy to get drawn in and let the hours, days, and weeks roll by and before you know it your family doesn&#8217;t recognize you, your friends stop inviting you to lunch, and you are living completely out of balance&#8230; not good.</div>
</p>
<p><div>So, when this message crossed my in-box shortly after having a related conversation with another dear friend, I began to wonder if you face the same life balance challenges and if so, would you be as blessed by this simple yet powerful message similar to how it impacted me? I figured there was only one way to find out&#8230; share it with you.</div>
</p>
<p><div>So I dedicate this to my friends Connie Clark and Jason Stephens in the hope that it blessed you as well.</div>
</p>
<p><div id="_mcePaste"><em>An Angel says, &#8216;Never borrow from the future.  If you worry about what may happen tomorrow and it doesn&#8217;t happen, you have worried in vain.  Even if it does happen, you have to worry twice.&#8217;</em></div>
</p>
<p><div id="_mcePaste">1. Pray</div>
<div id="_mcePaste">2. Go to bed on time.</div>
<div id="_mcePaste">3. Get up on time so you can start the day unrushed.</div>
<div id="_mcePaste">4. Say No to projects that won&#8217;t fit into your time schedule, or that will compromise your mental health.</div>
<div id="_mcePaste">5. Delegate tasks to capable others.</div>
<div id="_mcePaste">6. Simplify and unclutter your life.</div>
<div id="_mcePaste">7. Less is more. ( Although one is often not enough, two are often too many.)</div>
<div id="_mcePaste">8. Allow extra time to do things and to get to places.</div>
<div id="_mcePaste">9. Pace yourself.  Spread out big changes and difficult projects over time; don&#8217;t lump the hard things all together.</div>
<div id="_mcePaste">10. Take one day at a time.</div>
<div id="_mcePaste">11. Separate worries from concerns.  If a situation is a concern, find out what God would have you do and let go of the anxiety.  If you can&#8217;t do anything about a situation, forget it.</div>
<div id="_mcePaste">12. Live within your budget; don&#8217;t use credit cards for ordinary purchases.</div>
<div id="_mcePaste">13.. Have backups; an extra car key in your wallet, an extra house key buried in the garden, extra stamps, etc.</div>
<div id="_mcePaste">14. K.M.S. (Keep Mouth Shut).  This single piece of advice can prevent an enormous amount of trouble.</div>
<div id="_mcePaste">15. Do something for the Kid in You everyday.</div>
<div id="_mcePaste">16. Carry a spiritually enlightening book with you to read while waiting in line.</div>
<div id="_mcePaste">17. Get enough rest.</div>
<div id="_mcePaste">18. Eat right.</div>
<div id="_mcePaste">19. Get organized so everything has its place.</div>
<div id="_mcePaste">20. Listen to a tape while driving that can help improve your quality of life..</div>
<div id="_mcePaste">21. Write down thoughts and inspirations.</div>
<div id="_mcePaste">22. Every day, find time to be alone.</div>
<div id="_mcePaste">23. Having problems?  Talk to God on the spot.  Try to nip small problems in the bud.  Don&#8217;t wait until it&#8217;s time to go to bed to try and pray.</div>
<div id="_mcePaste">24. Make friends with Godly people.</div>
<div id="_mcePaste">25.. Keep a folder of favorite scriptures on hand.</div>
<div id="_mcePaste">26. Remember that the shortest bridge between despair and hope is often a good &#8216;Thank you Jesus .&#8217;</div>
<div id="_mcePaste">27. Laugh.</div>
<div id="_mcePaste">28. Laugh some more!</div>
<div id="_mcePaste">29. Take your work seriously, but not yourself at all.</div>
<div id="_mcePaste">30. Develop a forgiving attitude (most people are doing the best they can).</div>
<div id="_mcePaste">31. Be kind to unkind people (they probably need it the most).</div>
<div id="_mcePaste">32. Sit on your ego.</div>
<div id="_mcePaste">33 Talk less; listen more.</div>
<div id="_mcePaste">34. Slow down.</div>
<div id="_mcePaste">35. Remind yourself that you are not the general manager of the universe.</div>
<div id="_mcePaste">36 Every night before bed, think of one thing you&#8217;re grateful for that you&#8217;ve never been grateful for before.</div>
</p>
<p><div>Thank you for letting me share this with you and please be sure to post a comment, I would like to know if this touched you and if so, share with me those that impacted you the most. Now get back to work, but be sure to keep your balance in check!</div>
</p>
<p><div><span style="font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; line-height: 17px; font-size: 12px; color: #333333;">Have a blessed day!</span></div>
</p>
<p><div><span style="font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; line-height: 17px; font-size: 12px; color: #333333;">I am here to help you succeed in your business and life!</p>
<p><a style="text-decoration: none; color: #205bb2; border: 0px initial initial;" href="http://askjamesholmes.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/11/230f7838ce3cae0635c29260bef6affc1.png"><img style="padding: 0px; margin: 0px; border: initial none initial;" title="James_Holmes_Internet_Marketer" src="http://askjamesholmes.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/11/230f7838ce3cae0635c29260bef6affc1.png" alt="230f7838ce3cae0635c29260bef6affc1 How to Manage Your Internet Marketing Business and Balance Your Life" width="150" height="24" /></a></p>
<p>P.S. Connie&#8217;s message said to pass it on to four people&#8230; wonder if I can hold the blessings resulting from a few thousand.</p>
<p>(c) Copyright 2008-2010 James A. Holmes. All Rights Reserved.</p>
<p>*************************</p>
<p>James Holmes, Global Team Builder, Coach and Trainer, combining online and offline techniques to help you grow your business. To request a free 30 minute consultation contact James by phone at 303-523-9503 or email at james@AskJamesHolmes.com</p>
<p>*************************</p>
<p>Note: If you’d like to reprint this article on your blog or in your newsletter you have permission to do so as long as the copyright information and the resource box above remains with the article.</p>
<p></span></div></p>
<div class="shr-publisher-2609"></div><!-- Start Shareaholic LikeButtonSetBottom Automatic --><div style="clear: both; min-height: 1px; height: 3px; width: 100%;"></div><div class='shareaholic-like-buttonset' style='float:none;height:30px;'><a class='shareaholic-googleplusone' data-shr_size='medium' data-shr_count='false' data-shr_href='http%3A%2F%2Faskjamesholmes.com%2Fhow-to-manage-your-internet-marketing-business-and-balance-your-life' data-shr_title='How+to+Manage+Your+Internet+Marketing+Business+and+Balance+Your+Life'></a></div><div style="clear: both; min-height: 1px; height: 3px; width: 100%;"></div><!-- End Shareaholic LikeButtonSetBottom Automatic -->]]></content:encoded>
			<wfw:commentRss>http://askjamesholmes.com/how-to-manage-your-internet-marketing-business-and-balance-your-life/feed/</wfw:commentRss>
		<slash:comments>3</slash:comments>
		</item>
		<item>
		<title>Free Download: Napoleon Hill &#8220;Think and Grow Rich&#8221;</title>
		<link>http://askjamesholmes.com/free-download-napoleon-hill-think-and-grow-rich?utm_source=rss&#038;utm_medium=rss&#038;utm_campaign=free-download-napoleon-hill-think-and-grow-rich</link>
		<comments>http://askjamesholmes.com/free-download-napoleon-hill-think-and-grow-rich#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 23 Mar 2010 18:41:08 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>JamesHolmes</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Mindset]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Personal Development]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[free e-book]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[napoleon hill]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[personal development e-book]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[prosperity mindset]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[think and grow rich]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://askjamesholmes.com/?p=2377</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Today I was thinking about leadership and the mindset of a leader. I looked around my library in my home office and the book "Think and Grow Rich" by Napoleon Hill a truly remarkable book. I wanted to share this amazing book with my blog readers and followers, so I have prepared this post and included a download link for a free deluxe edition of the book. No opt in required, just click on the link and download your book as a PDF and enjoy!

Think and Grow Rich contains principles that have been tested over the decades and proven to yield life changing results by thousands of people around the world. It was Mr. Andrew Carnegie's idea that the "magic formula," which gave him his stupendous fortune should be made available to the average person. He believe that these success principles should be taught in all public schools and colleges, and expressed the opinion that if properly taught it would revolutionize the entire education system. I agree!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<iframe src="http://www.facebook.com/plugins/like.php?href=http%3A%2F%2Faskjamesholmes.com%2Ffree-download-napoleon-hill-think-and-grow-rich&amp;layout=standard&amp;show_faces=true&amp;width=250&amp;action=like&amp;colorscheme=light" scrolling="no" frameborder="0" allowTransparency="true" style="border:none; overflow:hidden; width:250px;height:30px;margin-top:5px;"></iframe><!-- Start Shareaholic LikeButtonSetTop Automatic --><!-- End Shareaholic LikeButtonSetTop Automatic --><div class="tweetmeme_button" style="float: right; margin-right: 10px;">
			<a href="http://api.tweetmeme.com/share?url=http%3A%2F%2Faskjamesholmes.com%2Ffree-download-napoleon-hill-think-and-grow-rich"><br />
				<img src="http://api.tweetmeme.com/imagebutton.gif?url=http%3A%2F%2Faskjamesholmes.com%2Ffree-download-napoleon-hill-think-and-grow-rich&amp;source=AskJamesHolmes&amp;style=normal&amp;service=bit.ly&amp;b=2" height="61" width="50" title="Free Download: Napoleon Hill Think and Grow Rich" alt=" Free Download: Napoleon Hill Think and Grow Rich" /><br />
			</a>
		</div>
<p><a href="http://askjamesholmes.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/03/Think_and_Grow_Rich.jpg"><img class="alignnone size-medium wp-image-2378" title="Think_and_Grow_Rich_Free_Download" src="http://askjamesholmes.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/03/Think_and_Grow_Rich-242x300.jpg" alt="Think and Grow Rich 242x300 Free Download: Napoleon Hill Think and Grow Rich" width="194" height="240" /></a></p>
<p>Today I was thinking about leadership and the mindset of a leader. I looked around my library in my home office and the book &#8220;<strong><a title="Think and Grow Rich" href="http://www.box.net/shared/fhsb1c1p7j" target="_blank">Think and Grow Rich</a></strong>&#8221; by <strong>Napoleon Hill</strong> a truly remarkable book. I wanted to share this amazing book with my blog readers and followers, so I have prepared this post and included a download link for a free deluxe edition of the book. No opt in required, just click on the link and download your book as a PDF and enjoy!</p>
<p>Think and Grow Rich contains principles that have been tested over the decades and proven to yield life changing results by thousands of people around the world. It was Mr. Andrew Carnegie&#8217;s idea that the &#8220;magic formula,&#8221; which gave him his stupendous fortune should be made available to the average person. He believe that these success principles should be taught in all public schools and colleges, and expressed the opinion that if properly taught it would revolutionize the entire education system. I agree!</p>
<p>Here is the link: <a title="Download Think and Grow Rich Free" href="http://www.box.net/shared/fhsb1c1p7j" target="_blank">Download &#8220;Think and Grow Rich&#8221;</a></p>
<p>So, I hope you accept my gift, download your copy and place into practice the principles set-forth in this book. Think and Grow Rich is on the short list of favorite books of almost every successful person I know. Perhaps it will also be on yours.</p>
<p>I am here to help you succeed!</p>
<p><a href="http://askjamesholmes.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/11/230f7838ce3cae0635c29260bef6affc1.png"><img class="alignnone size-full wp-image-1900" title="James_Holmes_Internet_Marketer" src="http://askjamesholmes.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/11/230f7838ce3cae0635c29260bef6affc1.png" alt="230f7838ce3cae0635c29260bef6affc1 Free Download: Napoleon Hill Think and Grow Rich" width="150" height="24" /></a></p>
<p>P.S. If you prefer to cut and paste the actual link to download the book to your browser, here it is:</p>
<p><a title="Think and Grow Rich" href="http://www.box.net/shared/fhsb1c1p7j" target="_blank">http://www.box.net/shared/fhsb1c1p7j</a></p>
<p>(c) Copyright 2008-2010 James A. Holmes. All Rights Reserved.</p>
<p>*************************</p>
<p>James Holmes, Global Team Builder, Coach and Trainer, combining online and offline techniques to help you grow your business. To request a free 30 minute consultation contact James by phone at 303-523-9503 or email at james@AskJamesHolmes.com</p>
<p>*************************</p>
<p>Note: If you’d like to reprint this article on your blog or in your newsletter you have permission to do so as long as the copyright information and the resource box above remains with the article.</p>
<p>*************************</p>
<div class="shr-publisher-2377"></div><!-- Start Shareaholic LikeButtonSetBottom Automatic --><div style="clear: both; min-height: 1px; height: 3px; width: 100%;"></div><div class='shareaholic-like-buttonset' style='float:none;height:30px;'><a class='shareaholic-googleplusone' data-shr_size='medium' data-shr_count='false' data-shr_href='http%3A%2F%2Faskjamesholmes.com%2Ffree-download-napoleon-hill-think-and-grow-rich' data-shr_title='Free+Download%3A+Napoleon+Hill+%22Think+and+Grow+Rich%22'></a></div><div style="clear: both; min-height: 1px; height: 3px; width: 100%;"></div><!-- End Shareaholic LikeButtonSetBottom Automatic -->]]></content:encoded>
			<wfw:commentRss>http://askjamesholmes.com/free-download-napoleon-hill-think-and-grow-rich/feed/</wfw:commentRss>
		<slash:comments>1</slash:comments>
		</item>
		<item>
		<title>Rememberance of 9/11 and a Legacy</title>
		<link>http://askjamesholmes.com/remebrance-of-911-and-a-legacy?utm_source=rss&#038;utm_medium=rss&#038;utm_campaign=remebrance-of-911-and-a-legacy</link>
		<comments>http://askjamesholmes.com/remebrance-of-911-and-a-legacy#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Fri, 11 Sep 2009 22:44:40 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>JamesHolmes</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Personal Development]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[911]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[legacy.servant leadership]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[lessons]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[remebrance]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://askjamesholmes.com/?p=1445</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[I couldn't have imagined 24 hours ago how much of my day would be spent deeply contemplating how much the world has changed since 9/11 and rightful and permanent mark those events have left on our country. I started the day reaching out to a friend that had lost family members on the plane which struck the Pentagon, I just wanted to let her know that I was thinking about her on this day. I also thought of a friend who is taking a final reenlistment exam today of all days for the Colorado Air National Guard, so I called him, wished him luck, and thanked him for his willingness to serve our country again.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<iframe src="http://www.facebook.com/plugins/like.php?href=http%3A%2F%2Faskjamesholmes.com%2Fremebrance-of-911-and-a-legacy&amp;layout=standard&amp;show_faces=true&amp;width=250&amp;action=like&amp;colorscheme=light" scrolling="no" frameborder="0" allowTransparency="true" style="border:none; overflow:hidden; width:250px;height:30px;margin-top:5px;"></iframe><!-- Start Shareaholic LikeButtonSetTop Automatic --><!-- End Shareaholic LikeButtonSetTop Automatic --><div class="tweetmeme_button" style="float: right; margin-right: 10px;">
			<a href="http://api.tweetmeme.com/share?url=http%3A%2F%2Faskjamesholmes.com%2Fremebrance-of-911-and-a-legacy"><br />
				<img src="http://api.tweetmeme.com/imagebutton.gif?url=http%3A%2F%2Faskjamesholmes.com%2Fremebrance-of-911-and-a-legacy&amp;source=AskJamesHolmes&amp;style=normal&amp;service=bit.ly&amp;b=2" height="61" width="50" title="Rememberance of 9/11 and a Legacy" alt=" Rememberance of 9/11 and a Legacy" /><br />
			</a>
		</div>
<div id="attachment_1446" class="wp-caption alignleft" style="width: 92px"><a rel="attachment wp-att-1446" href="http://askjamesholmes.com/personal-development/remebrance-of-911-and-a-legacy"><img class="size-full wp-image-1446" title="911Tribute Lights" src="http://askjamesholmes.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/09/911Tribute-Lights.jpg" alt="911Tribute Lights Rememberance of 9/11 and a Legacy" width="82" height="123" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Never Forgotten</p></div>
<p>I couldn&#8217;t have imagined 24 hours ago how much of my day would be spent deeply contemplating how much the world has changed since <strong>9/11</strong> and rightful and permanent mark those events have left on our country. I started the day reaching out to a friend that had lost family members on the plane which struck the Pentagon, I just wanted to let her know that I was thinking about her on this day. I also thought of a friend who is taking a final reenlistment exam today of all days for the Colorado Air National Guard, so I called him, wished him luck, and thanked him for his willingness to serve our country again.</p>
<p>I reflected on all of this as I prepared for my daily podcast and the program took on a very different direction, less about how to build a successful business and more about how to value and invest our precious time. I thought about so many who had their futures taken away and how blessed we are to have another day to make a difference in the world. I talked about getting clear on your purpose, setting your objectives down on paper, attracting the resources you need to fulfill your plan, adopting daily disciplines, measuring results, making adjustments, and persevering until the objective has been met. So much as a result thinking of the precious lives that were lost.</p>
<p>You can listen to the recording here: <a title="Internet Business Blueprint Podcast" href="http://www.jamesholmesradio.com">The Internet Business Blueprint Podcast for 9/11</a></p>
<p>As I made the rounds on Twitter and Facebook, I realized that so many of my friends where also thinking deeply about the eighth anniversary of that very sad day. I read an amazing peace on Mashable titled &#8220;<a title="Remebering 9/11 Through Social Media" href="http://mashable.com/2009/09/11/september-11/">Remembering 9/11 Through Social Media</a>&#8221; and this excellent blog post caused me to think about what it would have been like to have Twitter on that day. I think of all of the &#8220;heard it first on Twitter&#8221; moments I have experienced the last few months,  from the death of Michael Jackson to events of the Presidential election, Twitter often trumped the mainstream news media. I often know exactly what my friends are doing at any given moment in real time. In some ways I have to say I am glad Twitter wasn&#8217;t an option, but then I think about the families of those lost and perhaps an opportunity for the victims to send a quick note to their loved ones.</p>
<p>I guess the great lesson for me on reflection of today centers on the truth that we can best honor the memories of those  lost, by living our lives in such a way to cherish every moment, strive to be the best people we can be and seek to serve to improve the loves of others as servant leaders. My heart goes out to those who lost a loved one on 9/11 and I honor their collective legacy by vowing to cherish my precious time and a hope for the future that was taken away from each person lost.</p>
<p>(c) Copyright 2008-2009 James A. Holmes. All Rights Reserved.</p>
<p>*************************</p>
<p>James Holmes, Global Team Builder, Coach and Trainer, combining online and offline techniques to help you grow your business. To request a free 30 minute consultation contact James by phone at 303-523-9503 or email at james@AskJamesHolmes.com</p>
<p>*************************</p>
<p>Note: If you’d like to reprint this article on your blog or in your newsletter you have permission to do so as long as the copyright information and the resource box above remains with the article.</p>
<p>*************************</p>
<div class="shr-publisher-1445"></div><!-- Start Shareaholic LikeButtonSetBottom Automatic --><div style="clear: both; min-height: 1px; height: 3px; width: 100%;"></div><div class='shareaholic-like-buttonset' style='float:none;height:30px;'><a class='shareaholic-googleplusone' data-shr_size='medium' data-shr_count='false' data-shr_href='http%3A%2F%2Faskjamesholmes.com%2Fremebrance-of-911-and-a-legacy' data-shr_title='Rememberance+of+9%2F11+and+a+Legacy'></a></div><div style="clear: both; min-height: 1px; height: 3px; width: 100%;"></div><!-- End Shareaholic LikeButtonSetBottom Automatic -->]]></content:encoded>
			<wfw:commentRss>http://askjamesholmes.com/remebrance-of-911-and-a-legacy/feed/</wfw:commentRss>
		<slash:comments>0</slash:comments>
		</item>
	</channel>
</rss>

